From Rebadeba: Okay, I know some of you will be shocked! After more than eight years of being single, I was finally married on October 25th, 2007 to a gentleman I met on this site. We were married with family and friends in a chapel in the mountains of Montana. I have attached some photos to my profile. I have been a member here for many years and took one year off (2006) after 'dodging a few bullets', lol. Five days after I rejoined (March 5th, 2007) I met the 'ONE'. He was new on the site and joined for one month at the request of a friend. The morning we first emailed he was going to remove his profile, but circumstances at work delayed it until later that day. He took one last look that evening and I was online. He wrote me on a whim and decided to see if I would write back before he removed his profile. I'm sooooo glad he gave it one more shot!!! Never give up on here! I first joined in November of 2002 (or was it 2003)? I met many people on this site and was even accused of being a 'player'. There is nothing wrong with holding out for the 'right one' no matter what people may say. It's like looking for a 'needle in a haystack' for some of us. Now I have the kindest, gentlest, most trustworthy man in the world (in my opinion)! I wish everyone else the best of luck in finding their 'bliss' too! Warmly, Rhonda a.k.a. 'rebadeba'